How we make love is how life will be with us

Our method begins here. Then reaches beyond.

Kick back or curl up, however you feel.
Pace around if you’d prefer. I’ll join you.
Let’s be natural together, like we’re not watching.
Two cats doing cat things, not knowing we’re cats, not knowing we’re two, not caring.
Let’s just be This.

Constellation Therapy

Just as a jazz musician masters music theory and then explores and expands the limits of that container through improvisation, Constellating Oneness begins in the fertile soil of the Knowing Field, then allows itself to be “played” by what wants to occur.

Advaita Vedanta

As Advaita Vedanta asserts that this Brahman-self is the essence of our nature, this is a process of unlearning the identification with a separate identity (the sweet You that you may have come to know yourself as), and therefore the relinquishing of all desire for changing forms and transient experiences.

The Polished Mirror

This is an invitation into a personal container with me, the gate to an Inner Garden I have been tending for many years, though watered fully by Divine Grace. This container will be wholly emergent, unique, and transformative for both of us.

An Invitation

I invite you into a moment of compassion for that seeker who perhaps feels exhausted and confused, frustrated, and maybe even hopeless. This seeker has been tasked with the impossible. 

How can the eyes search for that which looks out from them?

The ears follow the song of their own hearing?

The heart ache for its own pulsing?

This wine is nearer to you than your tasting, more you than the blood in your veins. In this story, I may place the glass in your hand. Yet in a grander tale, I bow to touch your feet.

Meet Haylie

Joy is my north star. In the shadow of our planet’s most active volcano, trade winds blow laughter through me, falling fruits remind me of my sweetness, and tides coax from me tears too ancient for this body. Here, the ‘āina teaches me how to “wash myself of myself” and just belong. 

I dance, I fish, I watch geckos, I watch sunrises, I annoy my neighbors.

To you I offer my wildest and most present self, wholly open and fiercely loyal to your wildest and most present self.

Meet Haylie

Joy is my north star. In the shadow of our planet’s most active volcano, trade winds blow laughter through me, falling fruits remind me of my sweetness, and tides coax from me tears too ancient for this body. Here, the ‘āina teaches me how to “wash myself of myself” and just belong. 

I dance, I fish, I watch geckos, I watch sunrises, I annoy my neighbors.

To you I offer my wildest and most present self, wholly open and fiercely loyal to your wildest and most present self.